There is an ongoing debate in Canada about the so-called “reasonable accommodation” matter. This conversation is a natural result of our Canadian society growing, evolving and becoming more self-confident. As our religious, ethnic and racial diversity increases, we will continue to learn more about each other’s varying perspectives, traditions, religious practices and cultural expressions. And as we learn, we find ways to understand, respect and accept these differences. The “reasonable accommodation” dialogue is about how to create a respectful space for these differences within the boundaries of the law and without infringing on the rights of others.

The notion of “reasonable accommodation” means different things to different people. Allowing a Muslim woman to wear hijab or a Sikh man to wear his turban is not a matter of accommodation. Such practices don’t require any compromises on behalf of others and they are purely a matter of personal choices. There are occasions that may require others to accommodate someone’s cultural or religious requirements, like requesting a prayer room or special dietary needs. Such considerations are very reasonable and don’t cause any significant hardship by accommodating them. They are signs of a mature society that is inclusive of all of its members. A healthy and productive society is one that provides opportunities to all of its members to be full participants so that we end up with a more productive society as well as one that provides a sense of ownership to all of its shareholders.

Undoubtedly, this navigation is not easy and requires thoughtful and respectful maneuvering. There are some with xenophobic tendencies that have been exploiting any lack of understanding or stereotyping that exists out there. Two weeks ago, a radio commentator in Vancouver, Bruce Allen, made some ignorant comments that were unhelpful (see my statement below). Mr. Allen apologized yesterday for his statements. I have also been reading about some negative sentiments from the province of Quebec that are at times very hurtful.

There are of course limits, to any debate, that can never be crossed which are defined by our hate laws which prevent against hate and violence incitement. But in an open and respectful society, we also must accept the reality of this debate and be willing to compete with any ideas that want to promote alienation or marginalization. Education and building bridges are the best methods to confront the fear of the unknown. This is the responsibility of every Canadian who is concerned about this debate.

Unfortunately, there are also occasions when some members of minority communities take this debate too far and expect that they can impose their own values onto others. That only gives ammunition to some of the xenophobes who are advocating for zero tolerance. It must be recognized that if one expects respect for their own culture and religion they must exhibit equal amount of respect for others’ culture and religion.

This process is delicate and difficult. Nevertheless, Canada is well positioned, given its values, history, constitution, multiculturalism, bilingualism, compassion, geography, diversity and economic prosperity, to remain the best country in the world to continue to succeed in its progress and maturity. As we learn to understand these differences, we actually become more united and cohesive than ever.